Dear Willie: I am a guy of 30 years, and I would like to leave my girlfriend, because I’d like to spread my wings.
She is so clingy though, and I know it will tear her apart if I do tell her. I just feel that all her emotions are draining my joy and I can’t tolerate it. How do I move on?
Dear sir: You have given no solid reason per se’ for wanting to part ways with your girlfriend, only obvious selfish reasons. You’ve just simply grown out of love with the woman and decide you want to break her heart? Well, you probably really don’t deserve her if that is the case.
This is not how relationships work; you commit to someone because you love them, not have fun with them and when you get tired of that person leave.
Willie.
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