Dear Willie: My problem, simply put: Why are the majority of St. Lucian women so unstable?
What do you call someone whose every solution to a problem is a break-up?
Dear Sir: There are still many good women in St. Lucia. If you meet the bad ones, it’s not the end of the world. Everywhere has good and bad people. You will find unstable people in other Caribbean islands.
Some of the women are the way they are – spiteful, vengeful and bitter – because of the very actions of the St. Lucian men, though that’s not a good reason to treat everyone the same.
You just have to keep an open mind. Probably, the ones you have dated are not mature enough, regardless of age. People who keep breaking up for simple reasons are not ready for commitment.
Stop looking in the wrong crowd. And do not prolong any relationship with someone who appears mentally unstable. You will save yourself a heart break.
A good place to look is in the church. Nothing beats finding people through Christ.
Willie
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