Dear Willie: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now.
All along when I thought I was the only one, he was still interfering with his ex girlfriend, going every where together in my absence, and uses his work as a passport to spend time with her.
When we first started dating, I asked him how comes a handsome-looking guy like you be single. He said the reason is he broke up with her is because she was lying and too nasty (sleeping around) and now, they are just good friends.
Now, I got the biggest shock of my life that she is pregnant and there’s a possibility that it’s his.
He is always upset at me for no reason. Everything I do is a problem. We don’t go out like before, because he is always tired.
When I wake up in the morning and leave for work I don’t see him until 2 .m., when I leave my second job. I am working two jobs just to clear his debts and in the end this is the praise I get in return.
“Baby, I have a friend who is in a situation with his ex-girlfriend claiming that she’s pregnant and the baby might be his.” He then asked what would I do if I was the girlfriend in this situation – forgetting that he told me his ex was pregnant.
I am feeling distress, miserable, small and heartbroken. I trusted him and gave our relationship my all. I am having second thoughts about this relationship.
Dear Sir: When you’re having second thoughts, it is time to move on, trust me. It is not worth it.
And working two jobs to clear his debts? Are you his wife? Come on lady, grow some commonsense. Work two jobs to advance your education and your well-being, not for a man, who hasn’t committed to you as yet.
The signs are obvious: the relationship is dead from his side.
If you continue, you’re going to end up pregnant for him and regret it.
Willie
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