Dear Willie: I met a man two months aback at Sunny Acres. I didn’t like him at first but he knows how to keep a good conversation going. As we continued our communication, I felt more for him than I expected.
To cut the long story short, I am a very sexual person, so two of the questions I usually ask guys are: “how big are you?” and “Are you good in bed?”. I know your readers will curse me out for sounding like a cheap slut, but I am just a very straightforward person.
As expected he whipped out a photo of his penis (seems all men have them on standby). The photo looked pretty decent. Not impressive (I’d seen better) but good enough. What matters most to me are performance and experience.
He continued boasting that his loving is so good women fall in love with him. He told me he could last for hours on end.
Anyway, I put him to the test, and the first night we were going okay until like three minutes in, he got soft. I was unsuccessful in reviving him. He was embarrassed. His excuse was that he was tired and need some sleep.
Second time we tried, his thing did not get up at all. His excuse? He only had soda for the day. A third time, he finally got hard and lasted like 20 mins. I will be honest, I did not experience any orgasm, but his loving was on point.
My problem is though Willie, since then, he hasn’t been able to get hard and every time it is an excuse. I have grown to like the guy, but I just can’t deal with this. What is your advice?
Dear Miss: Poor guy. I believe if he means so much to you, have him visit a doctor. I would’ve loved to know how old he is.
His problem may be psychological or a more serious underlying issue, such as a narrowing artery or heart disease. I know people make fun of people who “go soft” (impotence) but it is a serious matter, and most times it can be easily fixed.
I would advise you to not let him feel scorned and unwanted. Work with him. As you said, he is a good lover, and that is very important. Once he is good at love-making, a more “solid foundation” would seal the deal.
Give him a chance. Get him to visit a doctor. You should also advise him to exercise regularly and eat properly. Sodas won’t cut it.
Willie
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