Dear Willie: I have been with my girlfriend for the past six years. I find she spends too much time on her phone talking to guys.
I found disturbing text messages on her phone, even pics of penises, and she also sends pics of her vagina. Now there is this guy she talks to on Whatsapp every day. She said it’s just a friend but I don’t believe it because of the hours of the day, night and morning she talks to this guy.
When I send her messages on Whatsapp, she takes long to respond for someone that’s always online on Whatsapp. Please, advise me. I am lost, for I am madly in love with this woman, and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.
Dear Sir: If you found all that “disturbing” material on her phone then it is time to make an exit. I am surprised you’re still there talking about “madly in love”. You’re indeed mad.
Currently, you don’t trust her, and lack of trust is not an ingredient that will preserve a healthy relationship.
Run fast before you see a disturbing penis making the exit you should have made by now.
Willie
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